Stepping Into therapy: What to expect in your first session
Choosing to go to therapy is a deliberate decision. It arises from self-awareness and recognizing that support could be beneficial. Beginning anything new can feel daunting and difficult, especially when it involves something as personal as therapy.
What to expect from your therapist
Contrary to popular belief, therapists do not spoon-feed solutions to their clients for all the issues they face in life. Instead, they aid the clients in becoming their own helpers. The client gets help equipping oneself with skills to tackle life issues, adopt a positive outlook on life, and cultivate a solid mental attitude, helping them become capable of coming up with answers of their own. The following may be expected out of a therapist in a therapy session.
What to expect from the first session
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Starting treatment may seem scary, but there are many benefits to look forward to- there is nothing to fear, but lots to gain. The first session may be more introductory and focus on the client's background and rapport building. In what is essentially an interview, the therapist will likely ask the client a lot of questions during the first session regarding their symptoms, coping mechanisms and general well-being to get acquainted with their background. The client's expectations from therapy, goals and other topics would also be discussed.
You may not anticipate your first therapy session to be emotionally taxing, but it may be. Sometimes our brains work hard to conceal things, including difficult memories and emotions one would not have been willing to explore by themselves. Whether you intend to or not, you might discover that the floodgates open as soon as you sit down for therapy for the first time. It may come as a shock, to discover that you're opening up to a stranger in ways that you haven't been able to do with others in your life.
You may experience a range of emotions before and during a session such as feeling anxious, anticipation and the fear of opening up. However, it shouldn't be considered frightening. One of the greatest things you can do for yourself is, to be honest and upfront with your therapist. Breaking down your walls and building trust and confidence is a positive sign in therapy, signaling your journey toward the process of healing.
The therapist and the client go on to discuss various aspects of therapy like the duration of treatment, techniques to be employed, and mutual understanding regarding the parameters of patient confidentiality. However, you don't have to figure it all out right away after your first session. Give yourself some room and time to reflect instead. It is important to remember that therapy typically necessitates several sessions, so it would be unavailing to anticipate quick fixes for issues on your first appointment. The goal of therapy is to provide the client with long-term solutions, not just a temporary one. Once settled in, therapy can be a liberating experience.